A Caesarean Birth Plan
The
following is an example of a caesarean birth plan. Caesarean Sections
are major surgery and are performed in very clinical settings and many
protocols such as sending newborns to special care nurseries are often
done for the convenience of the hospital staff and not for the benefit
of the mother. But the good news is that you can have a say in how your
baby's birth and the immediate post-operative period is conducted.
There are
many things parents and carers can do to enhance the experience of a
cesarean birth for both mother and baby. This plan gives some insight
into what one mother felt was important for the birth of her baby, which
was by medically indicated elective caesarean. These aspects may not be
important to you but they are a guide to spark some thoughts about what
is important to you for the birth of your baby.
My Caesarean Birth Plan
This plan has been thoroughly researched and carefully thought out so I
ask that you familiarise yourself with it so that you can ensure my
wishes for this birth are honoured and respected.
·Since I had a very traumatic and disempowering birth experience for the
birth of my first child, I would appreciate it if you could focus on
being sensitive, positive, encouraging and supportive during my
time at the hospital.
·My husband and our Professional Birth Support Person (who is a
registered nurse and a student midwife) will be providing support for
the birth of our baby.
·We believe our baby is a boy based on the 20 week scan and his name is
[Name withheld]. Please make sure his name is noted on his ID tags once
sex is confirmed.
·As the epidural I was given for my last caesarean was spotty and I felt
pain during the operation, I would prefer a spinal block for anaesthetic
so I can remain conscious during the “birth”, see my baby taken out and
be able to bond with him as soon as possible after the birth.
·Our Birth Support Person is to remain with me at all times and assist
with me and the baby during the operation. As discussed with Dr [Name
witheld], my husband is happy to remain present sitting on a chair away
from the table so that the anaesthetist can have ample space to move. I
know that hospital policy generally allows only one support person in
the room during a Caesarean but it is especially important to me to have
my Professional Support Person and husband present as my previous
Caesarean was very traumatic and this is not just an operation but an
important life event for both my husband and me.
·We
will want to take digital photographs and footage of the baby’s first
moments (minus the suctioning), his meeting his Mum etc but these will
be done without a flash so as not to distract anyone or cause alarm to
the baby.
·If
general anaesthetic is required at any stage during the operation then
we wish for the baby to be given to my husband straight after birth and
held by him until I am awake and can be told of the baby's sex and
well-being (by my husband). If this happens, I would like to be given my
baby in recovery as soon as possible so that I can put him to breast and
have skin to skin contact. Please do not wash him. It is very
important for me to meet my baby in his naked newborn state. So long as
he is kept warm with a blanket, Wayne and our Birth Support Person can
wash him afterwards.
·As
we have a 3-year-old son who has never spent a night apart from his
mother and father we would appreciate preoperative blood work and tests
to be done on an out-patient basis, and hospital admission on the day of
the birth (not the night before).
·Both my husband and I would both like the option of viewing the birth,
either by lowering the screen or by positioning a mirror. I have had a
previous caesarean and it is still a bit unreal, as I have never
actually seen a baby leave my body - they tend to just appear from
behind the green screen and be held up for a quick look before they
disappear to be wrapped up and tested. In my case, I was put under
General Anaesthetic and didn’t see the baby until at least an hour after
the birth.
·I
would appreciate a verbal description of the birth as it occurs. I felt
left out of my previous caesarean as my body and labour were discussed
as though I wasn't there and my requests for information and experience
of the operation were virtually ignored.
·Please ensure there is a quiet and intimate environment at birth
with no extraneous noise or talking when the baby is taken out. Please
try not to blind my baby with bright lights upon being taken out of my
body.
·It
is very important to me that I meet my baby in his unclothed, naked
newborn state (ie. as soon as possible after delivery and gooey). I
would like the baby placed on my chest with a warm blanket over us both.
I would like my gown to be covering me but will keep my arms uncovered
so that I can hold my baby skin to skin straight away. It would do a lot
to make this surgical delivery a bit more natural for us all. It will
help me bond with my baby and it may even resolve a few inner conflicts
that are faced after the birth.
·If
at all possible I would like to hold/feed my baby while I am being
sutured, if I feel up to it, and we would like the baby to stay with us
throughout the rest of surgery and recovery. At no time is my baby to be
taken away or out of sight of either myself or my husband. My husband or
my birth support person would be delighted to hold baby within my view
throughout these procedures if this is not possible (at least I would be
able to witness it this time).
·Please do not discard the placenta as I would like to take it
home after the birth to plant in the garden and I never got to see my
placenta last time. Please do not just discard a part of me that I have
carried for nine months as insignificant. My birth support person can
take care of the placenta on my behalf.
·Please stitch me up very carefully as I am considering having another
baby in a couple of years time and would still like to try for a vaginal
birth after caesarean. I know women who have had two caesareans and then
a natural normal birth.
·On
that note, think very carefully before making comments about the baby or
my body that may in your mind justify the decision to take the baby out
surgically (ie. big baby, overcooked, cord around neck or shoulder etc).
I believe every pregnancy and birth is different and believe in my
body’s ability to birth regardless of the outcome of this particular
birth.
·Please do not chat to each other about non-essential things during the
operation unless you are talking to me. There is nothing more demeaning
than having people talk over you as if you weren’t there, especially
during an important life event. Please remember this is not just an
operation but a birth.
·I
would like my husband and my birth support person to give the baby his
first bath after I have had the opportunity to meet and bond with my
baby.
·If there is a problem with the baby upon birth and he needs to be
placed in intensive or special care nursery, either myself (if I am
able) or my husband is to stay with baby at all times.
·I will be breast-feeding my baby as I did my last and under no
circumstances is my baby to be given formula without my express consent.
I am producing good quantities of colostrum already and will express
milk if I cannot feed immediately upon birth.
·Please perform all physical examinations and procedures in view of
myself and/or my husband. These are not to be done until I have the
opportunity to meet and bond with my baby.
·No Hep B vaccine at birth. I have strong reservations about
immunising a newborn right after birth.
·I would prefer the Vitamin K injection not to be administered
directly after birth but later that day or the next day.
Post-operative requests
·Please ensure that my 3-year-old son has the opportunity to meet and
bond with his new baby brother as soon as possible after the operation
(pref. in recovery if operation is in the morning).
·Please inform me of pain relief options (pros and cons for each) and
encourage me to use the least harmful to myself and the baby.
·Please help me get out of bed as soon as possible after the operation
and make a physiotherapist available as soon as possible after the birth
to help me regain my mobility.
·Please allow my support people to remain with me for a little while
after the birth and allow my Professional Birth Support person to come
and go at any time as I may need her assistance and encouragement in the
days after the birth.
·Please make available the ABA breastfeeding video as soon as possible
after the birth so I can refresh my breast feeding skills.
·Please do not make comments like “at least you have a healthy baby” if
I appear sad or disappointed about my birth experience. I will need time
to grieve and comments like that only add salt to wounds.